Don't Go Chasing

Today's Insight ~ Don't go chasing after anyone in a relationship. It is either they want to build and bond with you or they don't. Either they want to be with you exclusively or they don't, either they are in love with you and it is growing or they are just playing with your heart and feelings. 

Some people feel that they can still play around while trying to make you believe that you are the one. All the red flags are waving and they are continuously lying and covering up from you because they don't want to loose the diamond in their pockets while they enjoy fake stones. Know your worth and leave them to their games. One day someone will come along who will love and appreciate you for the person that you are and what you bring to the relationship. ‪#‎evaluateyourrelationship‬

Distractions

Today's Sage Advice ~ In a relationship you have to first admit that there will be distractions and others who will try to over step their boundaries and be a part of your relationship because they feel that they are the "other woman/man", been there first or they are the one, not you.

They will do things to stir you up and have you doubting and questioning your partner love, commitment and faithfulness towards you because they will literally keep throwing themselves at your partner.  At the end of the day how your partner respond to that says a lot about your partner commitment towards you, because if they are encouraging it, then you will need to have a reality check about your relationship and just who or what your partner want as part of their life.  #knowyourworth

If you find yourself waiting...

Today's Point to Ponder from my Pen ~ If you find yourself waiting on that text message, that whatsapp, that phone call or email but the other person don't have time for you because they has "others" that they need to speak to first and "get out of the way" before you get your turn, you are in an unhealthy relationship, no matter how much they tell you that you are #1 and they love you. 

The love of your life can never be that busy that they can't return your text message, your whatsapp, your phone call or email promptly, but as soon as someone else calls them or message them they instantly pick up the phone or reply to the email.

You can't be be the one and only, if you are getting the crumbs from the table while others get priority treatment. It's time to reevaluate your relationship and know your worth. ‪#‎knowyourworth‬